Modern men are increasingly isolated, distracted, and disconnected from their instincts.

Many feel called to more, yet lack the structure, brotherhood, and language needed to move forward with clarity and direction. Without a grounded container, survival patterns persist, keeping men passive, reactive, or stuck in prolonged boyhood.

This group exists to confront those inherited survival adaptations and replace them with presence, discipline, and grounded authority. We are here to restore contact with what is real beneath the masks, so men can lead their lives with integrity rather than reactivity.

• This container develops men who can lead themselves before attempting to lead others.

  Through consistent relational work, men cultivate:

  • Emotional maturity and self-regulation

  • Personal authority rooted in truth rather than dominance

  • The capacity to speak clearly, set boundaries, and take responsibility

  • A deeper connection to instinct, intuition, and inner guidance

  Rather than bypassing struggle or numbing discomfort, men learn how to stay present at their edge. Over time, this produces steadiness, confidence, and integrity that naturally extends into relationships, work, and everyday life.

  This is not about becoming someone else.
  It is about refining who you already are.

This is a structured, facilitated brotherhood.

While discussion, contribution, and mutual support are encouraged, the container itself is held with intention. Leadership within the group is not assigned arbitrarily. It is demonstrated, earned, and embodied through presence, consistency, and integrity.

Men are invited to participate fully, while respecting the boundaries and purpose of the group. The container is designed to prevent derailment, avoidance, or power-seeking, while allowing genuine brotherhood to emerge.

Practical Details

• Weekly Men’s Group

• Mondays at 6:30 PM PST

• Held via Zoom

• Facilitated, confidential, and sober

This balance of structure and openness creates a field where real work can occur and trust can deepen over time.

Our work is guided by Integrative Self Analysis (ISA), a trauma-informed framework developed by Michael C. Walker.

ISA is not a belief system or ideology. It is a working map that helps us orient to the relationship between the Soul and the ego. The vocabulary of the Soul is instinct. When trauma suppresses instinct, false identities and protective masks form in its place.

This work confronts those masks directly. We listen for where instinct has been disowned and bring it back into conscious relationship. As instincts are integrated, the ego personality becomes stronger, clearer, and increasingly subservient to the deeper intelligence it was meant to serve.

What is false is softened and released. What is real is sharpened and activated.

This is a non-dogmatic, spiritually open brotherhood.

No single philosophy, teacher, or tradition defines a man’s authenticity here. We honor God, Spirit, or Source as a living intelligence expressed uniquely through each individual. Men are encouraged to pursue what resonates with their own soul while remaining accountable to the shared container.

What unites the group is not doctrine, but a commitment to truth, integration, and lived authenticity.

Integrative Self Analysis provides a shared language and map for this work, not a belief system to adopt. The spirit of the group is one of respect, rigor, humility, and fierce honesty in service of growth.